A Secret Scrolls message from Rhonda Byrne Creator of The Secret From The Secret Daily TeachingsTrying to change someone is a waste of time.  The very thought of changing someone is saying that they are not good enough  as they are, and it is soaked with judgment and disapproval. That is not a thought  of appreciation or love, and those thoughts will only bring separation between you and that person. You must look for the good in people to have more of it appear. As you look only for  the good things in a person, you will be amazed at what your new focus reveals. May the joy be with you, Rhonda Byrne The Secret... bringing joy to billions